transitions

I graduated!!!! I now have a Bachelor's Degree since Friday - almost exactly a week ago. :)

So, the big question: what are you going to do with your life?

Well, I don't know all the details yet, and I think I'm grateful for that too because where's the fun in life and the trust in God if you know all the details, right?? Anyway, I do know that for now I'm fortunate enough to live with my parents and younger brother for the next three months. I am currently doing film editing work from home and I also have another job and am looking to get a third part-time job. My goal right now is to make as much money as I can so that I can save up!

In January, I'm planning to go to Europe for a while and then the plan is to move to L.A.; we'll see if God guides me another path, but for now, that's the plan.

Anyway, my transition period has been really nice. It's been great to just enjoy a peaceful life with my parents with frequent random outings, whether they are biking with my dad and brother or running out to get froyo. ;) I really can't complain! Life is pretty sweet right now. :) Sure, I have moments where I start worrying: am I really doing the right thing? Shouldn't I be living on my own already and getting started on my career? I need to meet people, etc. But then, I just sit back and remember that I need to enjoy each moment and period in my life as it happens. And, as I've heard from severel wise professors, it's really alright to step back a little after working so hard in college.

Overall, I am very grateful for this experience and trust that God will lead me where He wants me.

patience

Among many of the lessons I feel God has been trying to teach me lately, the lesson of Patience stands strong. I can feel myself aching to have answers. I keep feeling like, "Okay, I've waited this long, don't I deserve to know now?" And then I am reminded that patience is not simply achieved in a certain amount of time. I must continue to wait.

It's so easy for me to become discouraged! I mean, here I am, graduating in just a little over a month, and I still don't know what I'm doing afterwards. I have two possible options right now floating in the air, and honestly, I don't think I would be able to pick from both of them if I had to, so I've asked God to pick for me. I've asked Him to lay the one He wants for me on my lap. I know one of them will go through, it's just a matter of which one it will be.

In a way, I'm relieved that I don't have to make a decision right now because I'm so stressed with my last quarter of school anyway, but at the same time, I'm itching to know what my next step will be! Where am I going to live? Will I even be able to find an apartment in such short notice? When will I be able to see my family again? There are so many questions floating in my head. But then, I need to sit down and relax, "Lord, you've got this one." I will do my part once I have an answer and can move on in one direction or another, but for now, I'm just waiting. "So, please give me patience!" <3

moms

Thank God for moms! I just had a really good conversation with my mom over the phone. It feels so good to be able to express myself and share my fears, dreams, and laughter with a mom that understands and offers her wisdom and strength. It amazes me that I can go on and on speaking about myself, selfish little creature that I am, and she is still so genuinely interested in what I have to say and how I'm doing. That self-less giving love just amazes me!

I imagine that's a lot like what God's love is for us. He just listens and smiles while we go on in circles complaining about our lives or telling him about all our little experiences. No matter how small and insignificant our problems and experiences may seem in the big scheme of things, God listens and waits like a loving parent for us to go and talk to him, to share our lives with him. Ah, so beautiful! It gives me such joy and consolation to know that no matter what, I am loved so perfectly. We are all loved perfectly. <3

intro

Well, now that I already wrote a personal post, I feel silly for realizing that I haven't even given myself a proper introduction yet, whoopsies. I am very new at this, so bare with me.

Anyways, I am currently a senior in college - 6 more months till graduation! My plan as of yet is to move to L.A. immediately after graduation and find a job out there, but we'll see how that goes, it's kind of exciting knowing that the whole world has its arms wide open in front of me and I can choose any direction, like my mom always says: "the sky is the limit!" Seriously though, I'm excited to see what plans God has in store for me! :)

I have a very wide range of interests and styles, and I think my posts will reflect that (I tend to go all over the place). I'm always interested in recipes, makeup ideas, hairstyles, and fashion, as well as the daily struggles and joys of every day living.  Each day will probably be different. One day I might share about some recipe I discovered or some beauty tip, and another day I might share something I've been thinking a lot about in my personal life.

Mainly though, I just want to share my thoughts, goals, and inspirations. :)

I love taking the time in the morning, (when I have the time), to drink my coffee slowly while scrolling down Pinterest and enjoying conversations with my room mates. So, I'm inviting you into my morning. Grab a coffee, make some breakfast, and let's talk! ;)

vulnerability

Something that I think about a lot is vulnerability. Personally, the thought of being vulnerable with another human being and letting them into my heart, even a little bit, terrifies me. What if they turn around and decide to hurt me with that information, or what if they decide never to talk to me again?  They might just decide I'm silly for thinking the way I do, or I might lose their friendship altogether. So many possibilities!

Almost equally terrifying is having someone be vulnerable with me. I'm an imperfect human being also, what if I hurt them? What am I supposed to do with someone else's heart if I have a hard enough time trying to take care of my own??

On the other hand, however, there is something so beautiful about an open, vulnerable heart. I long for connection on a deep personal level with others. Everyone does! We need to be able to share our lives on a deeper level than just the daily small talk we make with a stranger on an elevator.

I often like to contemplate on the utterly perfect display of complete love and openness: Jesus on the Cross.

If that's the way we are being called to love, then yeah, it's gonna hurt. But how beautiful is that kind of complete abandonment of self?!? How beautiful is it that he gave everything, holding nothing back from us?! Whoa. Can you just imagine what it would be like if we had even a sliver of that kind of love for each other?

It's so easy to become consumed in how I believe myself to be perceived, that I often fail to live in that open state of being present and alert to the needs of others.

There have been a couple of times when I've caught myself being genuinely interested in a conversation or a moment that I forget to think about myself. I want to live more of those moments! I want to be so genuinely concerned with my neighbor, that I forget to think about my self listening to them, instead I want to just listen.

I believe that it is possible to live in this state of openness and vulnerability in everything we do. Yeah, there might be rejection and feelings might get hurt, but I need to be able to take those risks! I want to actually LIVE, not just survive by hiding away because I'm afraid of what might happen. And it's not only about those moments of deep, personal conversation and connection, although those are beautiful and need to be had with those we are closest to, but I believe this state of openness can be accomplished in such a simple gesture as smiling at the cashier that I feel personally has something against me--if I really stop to think about it after all, why would she personally want to offend me? Does she even know me? Maybe, she's just having a bad day, maybe she feels unappreciated. Just take a chance. Give her a smile!